DULẠṚ ar VALENTINE'S DAY

Sạntali te̠ Dulạṛ do̠ aema leka me̠n akana. Menkhan Dulạṛ mẽn te̠ sanam dulạṛ ko̠ ge̠ mit́ sãote̠ boṅ ro̠ṛa. Ce̠daḱ je̠, abo̠ do̠ dulạṛ jạt́ kana bo̠n, ona te̠ aboaḱ mãyãm re̠ dulạṛ ge̠ menaḱa. Ado̠ no̠a dulạṛ abo̠aḱ dictionary re̠ ce̠t́ le̠ka mẽn akana, ona do̠ latar re̠ o̠l akana. Dulạṛ renaḱ tho̠ṛa bhe̠d ko̠ boṅ, ne̠la. Latar re̠-

LOVE= bhab, dulạṛiạ, hiạ, hĩt, rij, sohag; (to) dulạṛ; (to give rein to) laṭpaṭ, lo̠ṭpo̠ṭ; (with) Koṅkorobot́

AFFECTION=hĩt pirit, mãyã, me̠l, mil, miluạ; (by force of) mãyã jalate̠, ṭhonk; (with demonstration of), cehor behor; (to think of with) uihạr.

Dulạṛ babo̠d pạhil Greek ro̠ṛ re̠ pune̠a katha tãhe kana. 

Storge (family affection, natural affection);

Eros (romantic love);

Philia (affection, friendship):

Agape (principled love).

Storge (family affection, natural affection);

Noa dulạṛ renaḱ inglis do̠ kana family affection. Noa dulạṛ do̠ abo̠ o̠ṛaḱ re̠n ho̠ṛ ko̠ sãote̠ jopṛao re̠naḱ dulạṛ. Jiw̃i bhiti khoć he̠ć udgạo, ikạoaḱ, go̠go̠,baba, bo̠e̠ha lạgit́. Nonkanaḱ dulạṛ do̠ ghãro̠j re̠ń ho̠ṛ lạgit́ kạmi seć e̠ idibona. Cet́ le̠ka baba do̠ ho̠po̠n lạgit́, bo̠e̠ha do̠ bo̠e̠ha lạgit́ ko̠ lahaḱ, se̠ ko̠ kạmi.

Eros (romantic love);

Bapla akan ko̠ṛa ar kuṛi mo̠dre̠ ho̠ṛmo re̠naḱ dulạṛ do̠ sạrige̠ sisirjạoiḱ aḱ ạḍi maraṅ sãndes kana. Watchtower Magazine tho̠ṛa diń laha re̠ mit́ issure̠ nonkay me̠nleda, “Tihin sanam dhạrti mit́ leka ko̠ kại eda, o̠ka do̠ sedai Greek ko̠ kại let́. Unku do̠ Eros boṅgo ko̠ sewayai kan tãhe kana, uni lahare̠ unku do̠ bo̠ho̠ḱ chapo kateć ko̠ do̠bo̠ḱ yai kan tãhe kana, uni laha re̠ boṅgae̠t́ kan tãhe kana ko̠. …..menkhan itihas e̠ mẽne̠da, ho̠ṛmo dulạṛ no̠a sewa ho̠ṛ ko̠ lạgit́ ãsh, hewa, ar ona jạbuno̠ḱ gey ạguakat́a. O̠na ko̠ iạte dho̠ro̠m se̠ baibel re̠ no̠a katha do̠ baṅ heć akana.
Hara to̠ra o̠ḱte̠ ko̠re̠ no̠a dulạṛ do̠ ho̠ṛmo re̠ ãṭchat́ ãsh e̠ ạguaya, ar un oḱte̠ ho̠ṛmo do̠ ho̠ṛmo̠ re̠naḱ dulạṛ lạgit́ e̠ chaṭpaṭ baṛaya. Ado̠ noa oḱte bhabna kateć lahaḱ ge̠ tatom daṛam diń lạgit́ bugi kạmi do̠ kana.

Philia (affection, friendship):

Gate̠ chada jio̠n do̠ aḍi ać́ mo̠to̠ć ge̠a. Philadelphia katha re̠ do̠ Gate lạgit́ philos ar bo̠e̠ha lạgit́ Adolphus katha mit́ ṭhe̠ć kate̠ć tear akana.

Agape (principled love):

Mit́ ṭhe̠ć pandit ho̠ṛ no̠a dulạṛ babo̠d e̠ mẽne̠da, “ Jiw̃i sãote̠ agape dulạṛ re̠naḱ joṕṛao menaḱa, noa do̠ jiwi renaḱ aćka ãsh (emotion) do̠ baṅ kana, noa do̠ mit́ ṭheć dhara kana, o̠ka lạgit́ te̠ khusi mo̠n jio̠n ṭhão, Agape do̠ nijaḱ kushi sãote ạḍi ãṭ ge̠ jopṛao menaḱa.” Noa dulạṛ do̠ ce̠daḱ je̠ nijaḱ jiwi khoć ać te̠ge̠ uduḱ ko̠a, o̠na te̠ bhage̠ ar baṛic dhara ko̠ o̠na modre̠ menaḱ. Ona te ce̠t́ dhara re̠ noa dulạṛ udgạo kana, ona seć bengeć do̠ho̠ lagaḱa. Ce̠t́ dhara noa dulạṛ calaḱ kana ona babo̠d sontor tẽhen huyuḱa.

Noa dulạṛ do̠ sisirjạoiḱ lạgit́ beoharoḱa. Ce̠daḱ je̠ uniaḱ do̠ mit́ ṭhe̠ć dhara menaḱ ar o̠na dhara te̠ge̠ no̠a dulạṛ do̠ idi mo̠j.

Valentine’s Day:

“`Valentine’s Day’  do̠ mit́ ṭe̠ć po̠ro̠b diń leka heć akana bare̠a Isại sahid (martyrs) kho̠n, ńutum do̠ Valentine. Menkhan no̠a do̠ ho̠ṛ ko̠aḱ nitaḱ po̠ro̠b se aricạli re̠ mit́ akana….paseć noa do̠ se̠dai Rom Po̠ro̠b (aricạli) Lupercalia kho̠ć he̠ć akana, o̠ka do̠ Februari 15 tạriḱ re̠ huyuḱ kan tãhe kana. Noa po̠ro̠b do̠ Juno Roman re̠ń kuṛi ar bapla boṅga, ar Pan boṅga oka do̠ bhạsi (Nature) re̠n boṅga ko̠ mẽna. No̠a kho̠ć e̠ho̠b akana.” —The World Book Encyclopedia (1973), Volume 20, page 204.